how to define "independent living?"

F: U have to move out my house to learn how to live independently!
S: Alright, so may I get one?
F: No way, u have to stay in the one I bought, U SPOILED KID!
S: Alright (then I shall go to your "DESIGNER STYLE APT")

Two months later...
F: I didn't see u live independent. If u don't achieve, I won't agree ur marriage.
S: (I never said I am getting married...WTF) Well, where did I got wrong?
F: U have to learn to live independently! U SPOILED KID!

D: Hey, F told me to teach u how to live.
S: How?
D: well, I don't know, since u clean up the place even better than I did. I guess u are just in the hot spot.
S: sounds like I don't have to do anything since nothing will improve my status.
D: remember just treat it like a hotel room.
S: So I have to be a house keeping guy to be able to live independently! Maybe I should apply for a house keeping job.
D: maybe u should just not move too many things so that u leave it like u've never been there.
S: maybe I should just lock up the house and stay outsides.

So what's living independently any way?